Sweetheart...........seriously.......you'll be the only one that judges you! Be as naughty as you dare! And then................embrace your inner slut! Seriously ........... Plan for what you're comfortable in today...........and bring an outfit that you and your husband fantasize over! I know what one you'll pick!
pick something you feel comfortable in.. You are going to want to partake in Lingerie night it's fun! Just remember you'll be drinking during the day so you'll probably be tipsy come time to dress up for the night you'll be just fine and confident, rock your outfit! I always feel self-conscious that's just how I am but generally enjoy myself in the moment.. just have fun with it that's what it's all about!
I guess your getting the point.. if a couple drinks make you feel better and a bit more daring well girl do it... I do it all the time.. and to be honest when your there the wild child comes out.. your husband knows and tells you how beautiful you are all you need is the outfits... so like others said before have a couple drinks and go on line.. Yandy is fun, also try wicked temp the shipments comes in fast... packages are small but everything fits.. its awesome.. and prices are pretty good.. have fun...
We certainly qualify under the "Bigger Kids" so I feel qualified to comment here. 1. We had awesome success in bigger sizes at herroom.com and hisroom.com 2. TTR is hard to explain to someone who has never been there. We can tell you "Nobody knows you and Nobody gives a shit." until we are blue in the face. Have faith and believe the hundreds of us on here. Within 48 hours of your first trip you will be willing things you never dreamed of doing; you will wonder how the nicest, friendliest, outgoing, people in the world all ended up in the same small resort in Cancun, and you will be planning your next trip. The best tip I've heard about Lingerie Night. Buy the sexiest outfit you would ever put on in the bedroom, then go one step further...That's the one.
I agree... yandy.com and try spicylingerie.com. They have a great plus size section, with curvy models. August was our first TTR visit and I was uneasy about my body.. No one really cares. No snickers or stares. I got over the nerves with one topless trip to the bar! Take a shot or Two and throw on some hooker heels and strut your stuff!
he says: As a TTR virgin this advice puts a big grin on my face. tick-tock, tick-tock edit to add// Hooker heels, gotta get her some of those!
Sorry to disagree! Pick something that you are NOT comfortable in . Our first trip, before we discovered CCC, I took outfits I was comfortable in, and after a couple of days wished I was wearing what "those girls" were wearing. Take a risk, even if it's, for you, a small one, you won't regret it, you WILL feel like the sexiest woman your man has ever seen! As for being self-concious? Sure, if I don't feel that when I leave my room, I'm wearing too many clothes! :daisy:
I hope we get a room as far from Patty-O's as possible if for no other reason than to maximize the Strut Time.
GoGoBlanco... you are so right !!! I'm scared to death with some of the outfits I've put on... but by the time I get to patio's its yehaaa let the party get started...
