We are going for are first time in May and from what we can tell. People go to drink. Party cut loose and relax because no on gives a fuck. Yes people will be drinking. Yes some will get drunk. Yes some will swing. And yes some will wear next to nothing. But guess what. That's why people go. If you don't want to be around someone drunk move to another area if you don't want to see. Top less women or. Naked. Then your picking the wrong resort and as someone eles said. What are you going to do when you see your husband checking out some 20 year old with nothing but a g string on At the end of the day for the most part people are all paying to go and party have a good time and make new friends regardless of what anyone thinks or doesn't. The only thing that should be of concern is if people are respectful to a No. Or if people like I have been unfortunately reading about some single guys. Giving uninvited attention and touching of women. But at the same time this can also happen at any bar or club anywhere not to say that makes it acceptable.
Arms aren't crossed either. I've just noticed that when people aren't completely straight about the questions then you get a lot of the "gray" line answers. Then it could be construed any way the reader wants. I am looking for straight forward, honest answers. Like I said at the end of my post. I very well may be doing all the crazy things but I want to know what those things are before I put myself somewhere that I'm not sure what it is really like. Hope that makes sense.
A question we forgot to address - We have seen it all - obese women topless - Absolutely, fat hairy bald slobs of men with giants guts overhanging their board shorts, Absolutely. Hard bodied fitness instructors - both male & female - Absolutely. Depending on your age you might see some women/men who look like your grandparents. Majority of the resort goers are mid thirties to mid forties. Full bottoms, skirted bottoms, scrunch bottoms, thongs, wicked weasels - it's all OK. Take a walk through your local grocery store, not Whole Foods, and look around - all of these people will be at the resort. It's a menagerie of everyday people. We respect everyone - get your party on - do what ya like - We're happy people are comfortable in their own skin as we are certainly not perfect - so get your sexy on and enjoy the tropical sun & breeze! ** One last point, we expected the resort to be a lot wilder - some people just lead more sheltered lives than others we guess. You want a freak fest - come out to San Francisco for Folsom Street Fair.
By "dislike" I mean several things. First you admit that you don't even want to do the research on the forums to get a feel for the place. As someone who has read every forum post I can tell you that indeed all your answers are here. Next - dictating terms like "don't say this and don't suggest that" puts people off right away. You are asking for advice and if people are saying the same thing over and over, that's probably a pretty good indicator that it's awesome. From advice here, I booked the cruise, bought the Bubba mug, am hanging out by the sexy pool, avoiding timeshare pitches, not overdoing it on the first night, and already talking to awesome people before the trip. Next - worrying about if there are too many women topless and being judgmental about the "quality" of them is off putting. People are going to see and be seen, have a good time regardless of if they are young, old, fat, thin, have perfect double D's or fried eggs on a nail. If you would read more of the forums, you will find out that people come here year after year not to be judged on appearance or activity. You aren't going into a pre-screened bubble of people. Just like any other public situation you will run into awesome people and assholes. You gravitate to the awesome people and ignore the assholes. I guarantee that if someone is too out of line, security will deal with them if someone else hasn't knocked them out already. Take it all in and push your boundaries of gross and normal. I am not exactly looking forward to seeing penises flopping around when those poor saps give up their swim trunks to the girls and they have to go running to retrieve them but instead of reaching for the eye bleach, I will be laughing my ass off, cheering and being glad it wasn't me. (along with everyone else) I guess to me it just seems like this might not be your cup of tea from the sounds of it. There is nothing wrong with that. Different strokes for different folks and it sounds like TTR people are most def "different".
Sounds like you need to decide and figure out for your self what you are and are not comfortable with doing and or dressing or perhaps seeing. Most people like us. Seem to go with an open mind and stay with in their comfort zone. Some I am sure decide to push their comfort zone be it with how the dress and other ways . Others decide not to.
The majority of people there are respectful but as in any situation you might run into the odd jerk. Deal with them as you would at your local bar. You will find yourself in a situation where you are comfortable doing what you feel is right for you and in all probability a few things you might never have done. There's no pressure. It's NOT an all out sex fest if that's what you want to hear. Honestly it sounds like you're either trolling or looking for reasons not to go. You will find a lot of fun people with varying levels of inhibitions. You will also see numerous body types and people who appreciate confident women of all shapes and sizes. Personally I find your question of "are the majority decent" offensive. Who sets that standard? I hope you have an awesome time when you go, but I think you may need to be more open-minded than you come across.
fied1k I did TONS! of research on here and no one was out right honest. So far several have been and I am getting the answers I was looking for. So thanks. Also, I see where my comment about decent came across as offensive. I will reword that question as it is not my intention to judge anyone by any means. I am no where near perfect, that's for sure. Was just trying to get an idea of what to expect in the type of people that would be there. You all have adequately answered my poorly worded question. So thanks!
It sounds like you feel the need to know EXACTLY what is and isn't going to happen. You're going to be on vacation and no matter who you ask none of us can see the future and predict your experience down to the event so bottom line clear answer.... You can expect to have your questions answered when you get there.
That's great. I hope you do decide to come and have a fantastic time. I think if you come with the right mindset and are willing to push your comfort zone a little, you will have a great time and meet amazing people.
