A large private party was held at a club I worked at and I ended up meeting the most fun-loving, easygoing group I could have ever wanted to meet. (except for 1 guy, but his night didn't end well when we introduced him to the front door, head first.)
most private and swinger clubs do not allow single guys for this reason, they do not respect boundaries, they think it is a free for all, have no one to answer too. As for real swingers we have to respect and answer to our spouses for what we can or can't do. Major commucation between the spouses is required this is Why most swingers have a strong and sucessfull marriage. you do not look for a better spouse to be with, if you do not have a strong relationship do not get into this lifestyle. Commucation is the key!!!
Yep, on our last trip to TTR, Sindy and I gang-banged six vanilla couples and not one of them even realized it until they were back home! That's the first thing they taught us in swinger school...stealth stalking!
This is precisely what I tell people in the salon when they ask...quite a few well, they figure I'm only half assed kidding! Makes my day and gets the Mrs a little uneasy... But it's always fun to give her a poke