:daveandmo: Hola Amigo's :aktion030:. May 16-31st Mrs f has got it into her head that the Boobs Cruise is some kind of seedy & sinister outing for lifestyle/swingers only. I have read a lot about the cruise on this forum & other social media and it sounds like a blast to me :ernaehrung005:. My thinking is it would be great to have a day away from the resort with people we will have already met at TTR to avoid all the ice breaking stuff. She wont sign up to CCC as she thinks it takes away the surprise element of our holiday (I see her point, but I like to be clued up before I go on holiday). I think she would have a great time but she is still dubious:icon_eek:. Cheers folks. Leeroy :daveandmo:
It's definitely not a free for all swing fest, we just try not to put barriers in the way of people having a good time in whatever way they enjoy. Sunshine, booze, lack of clothes, good music and great Ents staff in a sexually charged atmosphere can encourage people to push their boundaries somewhat. I would say though that if your wife is dead against it from the outset, it would probably be best to give it a miss.
I felt similar before out first trip. We are not swingers. Now we don't want to miss it. Everybody is different and every cruise is different. Some can be very wild and some can be very tame. We don't care what others do, it is what we do or don't do that matters to us. We have NEVER felt pressured by anything on board. It is not an all out orgy if that is what she thinks. Not saying that there may or may not be some sexual stuff going on but it is a big boat. If there is something that you are uncomfortable with ...MOVE. That being said, some people just are down right offended by nudity or whatever. So if that's the case I say avoid it. It's not worth getting in a fight about while on vacation. Last cruise, there was this couple on the boat that must NOT have done any research whatsoever on what a Boobs Cruise is or can be. The entire way back to resort they sat on the edge of the boat and looked out to sea. You could tell that they were VERY uncomfortable with what was going on and could not wait to get off. Talk about it more and get here to read up on it. There are different threads. Good luck!
We were on the cruise on Dec. 1st of last year. It was mostly the Chaos Crew on the boat. We would definitely be considered more conservative than most on there, and we also weren't even Temptation guest. We stayed at the GP. That being said even though we didn't participate in any of the activities. We still had a great time with the booze and music, and even just talking to the people there who were doing crazy things. It's a bit of a risk I understand, because there is no out once you're there, and if we would have been on the "buffet cruise" I think I would have a different opinion, but we had a great time, and would likely do it again.
The Boobs Cruise is awesome and not a sinister kind of anything, but if this is her first time to a topless optional party place and she's already feeling nervous about it, unless you two open the channels of communication WIDE open and she becomes more comfortable, I agree w Steve and say maybe next time. After you get on the boat you're basically stuck unless you find a ferry back from the island which would be a huge buzzkill.
As everyone has said, if she doesn't want to do a Boobs Cruise best to pass. Information and communication is the key if she were to have a change of heart. BC's sell out quick in May though but you might be able to get a standby if you decide to do one.
You should take it easy with her for the first trip there! how is going around and everything! I did my first trip to TTR last year, Didn't went topless except last day!!! ( Didn't really took the time to read about TTR here and on internet !! Now, I plan all of my second trip, April 2 Boobs Cruise, and ton of fun! Ben told me if we are going to TTR you better to be topless '' ma ptite crisse '' ( expression in french ) a bit like my little bastard in a good way! Please, don't out any pressure on her she might feel uncomfortable for first few day, and I'll say for this trip don't do it! And talk alot about it to make sure what's the limit for both of you! For us, Can speak to anyone as long as he can see me, we are not swingers at all we are just ourself... If she want to do it then try to get on by going to the paty'o before 9 am if isn't full you might be able to go on! But as I say as asvice Not the first trip Envoyé de mon iPhone à l'aide de Tapatalk
At the risk of ostracizing myself, I'll give my thoughts. We just took our first ever Boobs Cruise last week. It was our first full day at the resort and didn't know anybody on the cruise. The short version of our experience is that it's not for everybody. Don't get me wrong. We had fun. The cruise itself is organized and run well. The boat is good quality, staff great, and the entertainers incredibly enthusiastic. It's obviously popular, as about half of our cruise compatriots were repeaters and there was a waiting list to get on. The MC's (Chino and Omar) are funny and great at getting people involved. But there was enough public blank sucking and bleep eating done at their encouragement to make some uncomfortable, so really that needs to be part of the conversation - do you want to be around this? For us, we didn't participate, but we are open minded and generally found it funny or entertaining to watch. The one thing we both agreed on though was that the non-stop 5 or 6 hours of sex talk, take this off, spank here, suck this, sex position games, etc. gets boring after a while. But I guess we are in the minority, as most people seemed enthusiastic about it.
"the non-stop 5 or 6 hours of sex talk, take this off, spank here, suck this, sex position games, etc. gets boring after a while" Seriously, I am truly sorry.
Boobs Cruise We would encourage Mrs F to envibe the web site, so much information and fun. It will almost certainly be the first holiday you have been on where you "know" so many people before you get there and so much proper info on the hotel and all the activities. We did our 1st trip & cruise in Nov 13, the cruise is certainly not seedy or sinister, the opposite , classy and open fun, 18-30 for v slightly more mature dudes !! Ok ,can be v sexy as well but that's what your going to TTR for (isn't it ?)....you don't get a lot of chances in life to sail aboard such a beautiful catamaran (if you do your a very lucky man but it still won't have Chino on board) Were there 14 -28, so hope to catch up with you both, were hoping to do 2 Boob cruises, they're such fun, so if Mrs F and you would like to join Viv and I , just shout, we really aren't "sinister". :sofa: However, if Mrs F does feel this is outside her comfort zone then I concur with the others , don't push it........Only 75 days to go for us :mnm:
