So this is our first trip to an adult vacation destination and well needless to say we're short excited about it, with all the theme night shopping and the bikini shopping the wife has done its hard to believe she is getting anything else done! Now the problem is........ She wants to dress in fun skimpy bikinis and theme night outfits and what not but is afraid to and I can't seem to get her to be confident in the nobody knows you and no one gives a shit attitude!!! Any suggestions??
Hang out for a bit and when everyone comes out in their outfits and she can tell there's people go back to your room, change and join the party! That or just do a bunch of shots and just say screw it and go on out and enjoy yourselves!
Shots for sure won't be an issue especially seeing the chaos group you're in is going to be there which from what we read from you guys we may quickly fall into the Temptation spirit
Its always better and just plain more fun the more people participating. Its all in fun, no ones there to judge and its better to look back saying I'm glad I did instead of I wish i had!
This statment is 100% true. You said it. Now you just have to understand it. Encourage her to wear whatever SHE wants to wear and feels good about. Doesn't matter what it is. As she feels better about the new environment, the sexy clothes will follow. On her schedule. Don't force it. Just enjoy it. Happy wife = happy life and that's even more true at Temptations. There's no cute little saying for an uncomfortable and pressured wife. D
Last year was my first trip and I regretted not bringing the costumes. I had something for Lingerie night and for the colour nights but not for the fun themes. Ended up shopping at walmart and borrowing outfits. I am bringing stuff this year though. Maybe she can bring them and change if she wants to (she will). I'm very shy and reserved but it's definitely a no one knows you and no one gives a shit attitude.
A little red dress, a little black dress, and some Lingerie is a good starter kit for her. For you make sure to bring some funny or sexy boxers. Party s usually start later so if you get there too early in dress you may fell uncomfortable the first time.
I (Mel) am the wife! My first trip I was the same until I got there for a day and met soooo many awesome people of all shapes and sizes and no judgements. Once she gets there she will soon feel more comfortable and confident. When I go to TTR now it's the most confident and daring I feel all year! That's what I love about it!!!!! Good luck and have a blast!
