Seems like alot of people here are afraid of swingers or something. Guess what Swingers will not Jump you on the beach or sexy pool unless you give permission. Might do body shots with everyone else though. We are not evil people. We enjoy life to the fullest that we can. So dont be afraid of us, we enjoy your company as well without Sex involved.
I'm not sure were you're getting the "afraid" part but I do think we humans tend to be overly cautious of new situations, especially ones that might deviate from societal "norms". Don't forget a lot of peoples knowledge of what a "swinger" is is largely derived from the media and it's overly active imagination and sensationalism or "friend of a friend" stories whispered in hushed tones regarding alleged sexually aggressive couples preying on poor, innocent people lol. Ali and I have met many singles & couples with a wide array of rules and guidelines for what they do within and without their relationships and the one constant I've found is that if you ask respectful, intelligent questions most are more than willing to share and all of them are completely wonderful people who enjoy discussing their views with open-minded, curious people. TTR provides a unique opportunity for the blurring of lines and if you take the opportunity to learn a little about human sexuality and your fellow man/woman it can be a delightfully educational side trip on an already fantastic vacation. Throw in some tequila and a little AIWC and who knows what new experiences await
I would second this for sure, We have been part of the swing lifestyle for about 6 months, we are new compared to most people, but we are open to conversation any time any where any topic. We wore the white CS bracelets last year, and have some very seriously fun and open conversations. We have maintained friendships with at least 3-4 people that we met at TTR Yes we are open, Yes we have played around, are we swingers per se, sure! weeee! Open, adult conversations with like minded people is what its is all about, at Temptations you take as much or as little as you want. If you need to tell people to back off they take it in stride and off you go. Were not all there to get laid, in fact I would say that 90% of the swingers there are just out for over the top fun with adults. Don't get me wrong, swinging does happen, I myself had to step on a guy last year and tell him to back off my wife or bad stuff was going to happen. Overly aggressive does happen, but don't be afraid to at least speak your mind. I for one will be looking forward to seeing all you guys in Feb and having super fun conversations. Yes you can touch my wifes boobs, just ask her permission first hehe. Oh I just want to be clear here, JUST BECAUSE YOU WEAR THE WHITE CS WRIST BANDS DOES NOT MEAN YOUR A SWINGER, IT MEANS YOUR OPEN TO THE CONVERSATIONS OF SUCH A THING. Last year we did not swing at all, never done it not once. Sure we went to the local club, but that was so Lion did not have to eat any overly aggressive testosterone heads in their mid to late 20s hehe. The whole point was to get exposure, temptations allowed us this, the CS wrist bands allowed us to talk to other swingers, for them to identify us easily. Roar
Whenever I'm asked if it's OK for someone to touch/lick Ali's boobs I always say "I'm OK with it but it's her you need to ask!"
Oh absolutely, at our last party a guy came up to me and said "your wife's boobs are super fantastic, do you mind if I touch them" She was standing there, then he asked her. I very much think its total respect, 100%. Thats what I love about temptations, even non swingers are the same there. If you want to touch you have to ask. In most cases its fine, you will offend some people but dont just walk up to someone you don't know. Now lets steer this topic back onto wrist bands, if we need to start an etiquette thread lets do that. :brick:
The "official" CCC wristbands are only available on the Boobs Cruise. Ali and I ordered some from this site: http://www.sayitbands.com/order-debossed-custom-silicone-wristbands.htm Just so people know that we're from the forum, until we get our official ones on the Oct. 3rd cruise.
So the white bands with lips are for swingers or people open to the idea? We are not swingers but open to the idea of dipping our toes in that pool under the right circumstances. Do we need to order white ones? Will it open a couple doors if we have them?
