How many couples have had issues w guys being inapropriate w their wive/fg?

Each year there seems to be atleast one creapy guy that you have to tell to take a hike, but usually it is just some other married guys (from a couple that swings) that does a pat on the ass, w/ a compliment, to see if things will go further.

 

WIFE GOT FINGER BLASTED BY SOME DUDE in pool --

(guy was married BTW)

 

For us it was a few times but it occurred on each of our 3 trips. These occasions happened when I was in the washroom or if she was only in the company of other women, never with any other guys nearby. I wouldn't leave her alone at PatyO's so I always made sure she was in a group of friends but regrettably that hadn't always worked. She was followed to the washroom a few times and when I saw it I intervened and on other occasions she had to manage it herself. Many gents have offered to follow up with the inappropriate guys on her behalf which is great but we sure wish the behaviour wouldn't occur in the first place.

Sometimes it was forced kissing and grabbing at her private parts while using the the " I'm so drunk excuse". Seems like basic predatory and pathetic behaviour really.

Some guys just don't understand that girls in sexy clothes or dancing, laughing having sexy behaviour with others, which these guys can see, does not equal an invitation for them to be included.

99.9 % of guys at TTR, single or married, have been just great. We suspect the stories of bad guy behaviour is actually more often a very small number that are repeating that behaviour around the resort until caught and stopped, but impacting a variety of the girls. That is why we encourage anyone who has issues to speak up immediately to secuity or male frends to help avoid the next girl from being harassed, grabbed at, kissed, verbally abused, or the ever creepy....followed to the bathroom.

 

We went for the first time ast july was at patyo and left wife to go to bathroom. Young single guy and sat down by wife and started making his moves lol. My wife doesnt speak up fir herself sometimes because she is just a nice person. When i got back she told me that she said to him that her husband will be right back and his reply was well we can go to my room anyway. Yea thats going way to far. Once she told me i stepped in and explained some things to him and about 10 other ccc members. Thought he was gonna cry. This did not stop our good time and just showed me what a great bunch of people are on here.

 

LOL!!! ... You should bring him at box of kleenex hahaha !!

For us, someone try.. But I just said No and leave me alone.. I'm nice, but i'm not shy!! =) I can make someone cry within 2 minutes.. And when I drink I'm worst.

Respect others and people will respect you.
I'm not a swinger, I don't share myself with anybody.. So they should understand that.
My boyfriend let me go to bathroom, no prob. People tell me Hi and How are you. No ones follow me =) A night he was so tired, he left me alone at the pat'y'o I was with group we just meet.
I finish with another group of guy. he came to pick me up a 4 on the morning.. he said where you have been. I said, I stay right there and didn't move..
and I told him, there was a guy beside me was trying to catch my attention, and I said no few times.. So I ask the guys i was with to act like he was my boyfriend because I was tired. ( no kiss, no grab nothing ).. He just put his arm around my shoulder and the guy finally to after someone else !! pheww

Oh well, I can't wait for next time.

 

This thread is from 2011!

Do we really need ANOTHER thread about single guys?

As a single it's getting frustrating.

~Shawna

And yes I realize this isn't all about single males, but males in general - but most posts are in regards to single guys.

 

Haha if I ever see you remind me to give you a great big hug!

 

Being a single male, you'll probably give it to her whether she wants it or not.

 

But only when I travel in a pack of huggers lol

 

I, too, am somewhat amazed that someone went back in time to 2011 to resurrect this thread.

Yeah, yeah, I know we can search, but still.....

Still, party stories are all good