Octoberbreast official group

Well. Lol we are different the most of our friends that for sure.

 

For us, yes. Vanilla referring to the lifestyle. Have never been to a lifestyle club/event. Never been on a website, etc. Otherwise definitely not vanilla. We like to do a nice dinner then hit the bars or better yet a club in Atlantic City to see a DJ. We head out to Vegas every once in a while. We have our fun but definitely a different level than TTR. We talked about trying to create that TTR fun at home but it hasn't happened. Just difficult to go to the next level when you have work and the kids to worry about. But yeah if we are talking life in general definitely not vanilla.

 

Ben and Jerry's...I LOVE IT! Lol. I agree. I don't think anyone in this group is very "vanilla". Octoberbreast is going to be one for the books people!!!

 

You may find this hard to believe, but Melissa loves providing a nipple for the shot as much as indulging in taking one off of other nipples.

 

Agree, Vanilla means you are not in the lifestyle.. and lifestyle means, swinger, swayer, hot wife, side by side play.. ect.. there are lots of different lifestyles.:icon_rolleyes:

 

We resemble that remark!!!

 

I do believe you are right Jen, us ladies will get a long awesome in October. Let's just keep the AIWC flowing to tease all the boys. - M

 

For the record, Melissa loves to tease but she backs it up quite well!

 

we agree with others here. "vanilla" to us is people not at the "lifestyle". When talking to a couple we "play" with...we may say, "oh we are going out with our vanilla friends tonight." meaning local friends, people we hang out with outside of the lifestyle, etc....so thats the meaning for us. We heard someone mention "vanilla" as a soft swap term. Where we are from that is not the case. If you are soft swap or full swap it has no bearing on the "vanilla" term...but, then there is the whole definition of the terms full and soft swap...lol. full is easy to comprehend. soft? well, theres a wide variety of definitions to soft....lol. love the chatter on the board, gonna make for a fun 1st week in Oct for us

 

Yes It should be a very fun 1st week in Oct. Now we just need to make sure Steve has a Boobs Cruise during that week. - M