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Good morning amigos and señoritas, hope you all have a great day posting at work...lol. Not sure what you all do to be able to post at work because SOME PEOPLE actually have to work This forum is addictive like TTR it's draws you right? Okay now i i have to get back to work taking caring of stroke patients...I told you this forum was addictive!!

 

Ok. So I have a question for everyone this morning. Everyone keeps saying they are "vanilla" at home. What is your definition of vanilla? Are we talking just about the swayer/swinger lifestyle?

 

Good question baby, I would like to know the same thing about this "vanilla" subject. It is such a broad term, please someone narrow the definition for us Newbies

 

Darin and Melissa can probably expand on this in more detail, but Swingers refer to couples as vanilla when they do not engage in any sort of play or activities that extend beyond fun with their immediate partners. They may flirt, but that is as far as it goes.

Brent

 

I think some people would say Melissa and I are rarely vanilla. We like to enjoy a spicy lifestyle to keep things fun and not just in a swinger/swayer role. Life is what you make of it go enjoy and have fun. Vanilla is a term that has as many definitions as soft swingers. It's up to those using it to determine what it means.

 

In a broad definition on the swinger side of things vanilla refers to people who are not swingers and do not know you are one. They are just regular friends. Melissa and I would not refer to any of you Octoberbreast friends as vanilla. Vanilla friends won't let us do body shots off of them or bring AIWC to the pool for nipple shots.

 

I guess it's just a little confusing for me because we have heard this term used in other sexual realms as well, and by those definitions we are anything but "vanilla", however, we do not engage others into our play at home. I guess by TTR standards that would make us "vanilla", however, like Darin said ^^^ we like to live a rather spicy lifestyle all around!

 

I think we are the same way would we like to be that way all time yes.But as Hannah said in a post before most people and family don't understand so you stay Vanilla around them.so when u hit Temptation your around new friends who are like family who let you be who u r and Vanilla gets very spicy.

 

I think we all use vanilla as a term for boring in normal thinking. None of us on here are boring. The Macs have plenty of crazy flirty posts so far. Brent is going to scare us all with that monster he is hiding in his shorts. April is saving us all from the monster by telling the truth about it. Amy posted the nice sandwich pictures. You guys got Melissa and I openly talking about being swingers which would've never happened on other forums. I think people that come on CCC are more Ben and Jerry's mix in all the crazy flavors kind of people as opposed to vanilla.

I bet even though you guys all claim to be vanilla at home, you are the ones your friends think of as fun living, get the party going types. Am I right?

 

Nipple shots...that sounds tasty!!! I will have that instead of the buffet @TTR. I have a strange addiction to whipped cream it taste so good at 4 am waking up from sleep and needing a snack...break out the redi-whip! Now that I know they make AIWC and I will be indulging off beautiful breast I think we will buy a plane load and fly it down!!!