Ok, I'm still at TTR right now as a single guy... its very easy to keep on everyones good side. Think if your mom would kick your ass for your behavior to a lady, don't do it! Have fun, relax and treat the ladies like you would have to see them everyday and you'll be fine!
I had a blast when my brother and I went a few years ago. Plenty of cool couples and singles sprinkled in the crowd as well. Every day someone leaves and new folks come. I would suggest a bigger resort for a wolf pack...but since u r locked in.....b a gentleman....and may the best man sin....I mean win...lol
As with everything else in life...a bit of maturity and common sense has to be exercised. 10 single guys all in the same place could easily tip the scales of the atmosphere. Recommend reading the threat Steve posted as an example of what NOT to do... http://www.cancuncare.com/forum/temptation-resort-cancun/19186-singles-debate-again.html
Yes Sir i agree with you. if it was my choice i would not have gone here. like i said, i was more worried about some unwritten rule that we wouldn't know about. we're not going to look for women, just trying to relax and have some fun with each other and saying farewell to a brother taking the plunge. thank you everyone for replying. we are definitely very respectful people and not the type to get belligerent and bother people. and Mr. Donald, i'm being respectful to everyone here as it is trying to ask for tips and advice. i'm not trying to get tips on how to pick up women. none of us have been to a resort of this kind and since i got no choice, i might as well know what the rules are. thank you
Be Respectful, be gentleman, I'm not a big fan of male groups since we had a bad experiences but not everybody is the have a good conversation with the rest of the group and tell them all the good advice you got from this fine people. My two cents control your alcohol. A good conversation would get much more attention
You sound like a polite and conscientious person, but can you absolutely 100% say that about every guy in your group? Sometimes a person’s behaviour changes drastically after a drink, which can happen to anybody regardless of marital status, gender or level of intoxication. I’ve seen it happen numerous times: a generally ‘nice’ person suddenly starts ‘acting up’, and all apologies in the world the next day can’t change how they’ve behaved. Everyone is entitled to have a great vacation - your friends included, but you'll need to adjust your expectations a bit to fit in. It’s a sad fact that pent-up sexual frustration of large male-only groups, mixed with the sexually-charged vibe at TTR, can cause some real problems for the resort. Based on peoples’ previous experiences, as a large group of guys, you’re going to be dealing with some fixed ideas about large male-only groups from guests and staff alike. Don’t get angry about this, they’re just looking out for the other guests. You have two options: live up to these perceptions or work on changing them. Changing peoples’ instinctive opinion won’t be easy though. I’d say your no.1 priority this trip should be watching your group carefully, and keeping in check any bad behaviour. Watch out for the warning signs of anyone in your group displaying any sexual ‘creepiness’ or picking-a-fight behaviour and send them back to their room before they cause any harm. Don’t let anyone stare at or follow women around, don’t make inappropriate comments about people (even if they can’t hear it’s not pleasant for those around you), don’t be constantly hitting on women (regardless if they’re single or not). Try not to get intoxicated, or get too rowdy or boisterous; don’t crowd the bar so nobody else can get past you for a drink etc. Absolutely DO NOT touch anyone without consent – even just hugging would be inappropriate. No means no – not ‘maybe’ after you’ve asked the 20th time. Keep any anger in check, if anyone comments about your group, just laugh it off and let it go. People will be on the defensive side - letting something get to you will cause fights. Be careful saying anything as a ‘joke’ or in jest – given the size of your group and negative opinions people have of large groups, it might not been seen as a joke. Tip well and often. Where you can, join in with the games. Be polite and courteous to the entertainment staff – if they say ‘no’ they mean it. Make an effort to talk to people outside of your group – sitting alone in your own group does not give anyone a chance to get to know you, hence attitudes towards your party will always be negative.
considering the motto that you all seem to adopt about TTR, a lot of you all seem very negative about new groups going and from what i have been reading over the last couple of days, groups of singles do not seem very welcome at all (especially donalds negativity towards them). I understand you all like to treat the resort as a couples get away and a bit of a CCC club, but the nature of the resort and the way it is advertised is bound to attract groups of singles! and that is nobodys fault except TTR managements and the travel operators that are selling the rooms! From what i have read it is seems there is a double standard in place for singles over couples, and from that last post it sounds like i should be babysitting my friends for the whole holiday. Now i dont intend to get loud, i definately will not be harassing anyone, but i will be getting very drunk and I do intend to have as good of a time as possible. I apologise if the TTR regulars dont like this, but this is a holiday for me as well as you. I know i am probably going to get flamed for this, just my point of view. Nick
''please give me your feedback. anything is welcomed. i thank you in advance''. Your welcome,,, idiot
are you saying "your welcome" to me? I never said thanks and it wasnt me who posted that sentance you have ever so nicely enlarged and coloured for my benefit. As i said: "ITS JUST MY POINT OF VIEW" Idiot. Nick
