Excited to be there to watch this play out! Perhaps we could alternate whipped cream shots and bible study? Im sure the group is up for it!
Easy solution... As soon as you see her... Get her HAMMERED... Make her do foolish things before you do... Then you hold the upper hand... If she takes you down, you take her down with you...
So instead of "feeling her out", come right out and tell her, or send her a link that gives her a better idea of what its like. She may change her mind because she will know that she'll be uncomfortable there, OR she may still go and have a blast. Perhaps it will take her out of her conservative shell. And she may not be as conservative as you and the rest of the family think...I mean i'm sure your family doesn't know all you do down there right ;-)
My 21 year old Daughter is looking for a place to go, she texted me yesterday and say..MOM.. whats that place like that you go to in mexico..Temptation is it? I told her that it was an awful place and that really old people go there and that its topless and the swingers would get her ...hahah! she said.. it cant be that bad you have been there 8 times.. so finally i said.. ITS MY RESORT AND I'M NOT SHARING.. lol.. find a different place.. haahahh!
You may just get lucky and when they ck in their room the tv will be on channel 12 and you never see them.
You can always tell her "Yo Mama sent us down here to check on you" !! AS Sgt Schutz used to say "I see Nothinggggg" !!!
OMG Jen&Kyle too funny and too sad all at the same time. I'm sure you'll still have a great time - just hide behind the rest of us. Make sure to point the cousin out - just don't tell her about the initiation LOL