I don't disagree that I enjoy looking at women who are in better shape. That's obvious with most people. My issue is that there's an inferred (in shape people are better than fatties) sentiment I can pick up through your last couple of comments, which I'm sure a couple other people have picked up on as well. You're right, in my case at least, that an inactive lifestyle and bad eating habits, got me ovwereight. I'm taking better care of myself now-a-days and the weight is coming off. But I do know what it feels like when someone makes a judgment about the type of person you are because of their weight. And it's not pleasant. You'll find that most of us fat people already know that and don't need to be reminded of it. It's just good manners.
And everyone SHOULD be confident no matter what their size, shape, economical boob job issue, acne, bacne, cankles, whatever. You got cankles? No problem baby! Let's do a body shot off of them. Just think.... if someone does a body shot off of me... well a traditional one.... lol my belly button is deeper.... so I can fit more liquor in there! HA! lol :huh: :mexicoflag: hahah
My body is not made for body shots. Too much hair and I'm not shaving my chest/stomach. How annoying is that?!?!?!
wow!!! im not 40 lbs overwieght!! even if i was at goal and working damn hard and fin super proud of it, i still wouldnt bash anybody for either working on it, and not there yet. or is plain ole happy where they are!! its not for me to judge!!! respect isnt given on what you look like, its earned!!!!!! some people have a hard time with that idea!!! and the perfect thing was sarcasim!! we all have only one life to live, i personally would rather spend my time with people who just like other people for who they are!! i
looks to me like the hard work has paid off A LOT.....you look pretty toned and healthy in the bottom picture to me
Looks may be a 1st impression, personality and attitude is a lasting impression. The best fit people with bad personalities can be the ugliest of them all.
