My 2 cents worth. 2 years ago, I came down to TTR with 9 yes 9 guy friends ages 22-50. I of course had been to TTR before and knew what the atmosphere was like, but I also explained to them it is all about respect. As it should be for everyone, Male, female, couples, groups and singles. At the time I did not know about CCC to read the boards. Every one of guys were respectful and one of the guys is a harmless funny drunk, but never got out of line. We were there to party without having to be around kids, and loving the adult atmosphere. And that we did. (7 out of the 10 have became repeaters) Now me coming to TTR as a single female, I could bitch you are cutting into “my possible options” by telling single groups of males to go elsewhere. However, shunning away men, like what happens in the forum if more than 3 males want to arrive and party at TTR, could deter single females from wanting to vacation at TTR as well. No single males could also mean no single females so ding ding ding… No singles then means couples only. And I personally do not want that. We have also had a recent topic from a group of females wanting to visit and they are welcomed with open eyes and arms etc. Not once did I see any women repeaters "claws" come out and say “ ohhhh hell no you don't" we don’t need a pack of females coming in here and oogling and thinking are gonna play grabass with my man. (aka Step back bitch, this is not the place for you) with the head bob-n-weave-n-finger pointing. That didn’t happen. Being polite and explaining the ratio of couples/singles/males/females and let people judge themselves would be the appropriate way to respond. Just because there have been a couple of "Bad" groups of men that have been to TTR over the years does not mean all are like that nor should they be branded in that way when they simply asked, is TTR the right place for them to party. Respect works both ways, from repeaters and newbies! Maybe a thread should be started of "Is TTR the right place for us to vacation from a repeaters view. For example, before I would "bark" at groups wanting to come to TTR, 1) I would tell the couples, if one or both of you are jealous of the other TTR is not the place for you. 2) If your only goal is to bang as many people as your little heart desires while on vacation and don't care whose toes you step on... TTR would not be the right vacation spot. 3) If you have a history of getting into boxing matches after drinking too much NO ALL INCLUSIVE is the right vacation spot of you. 4) If you are looking for a 5* resort where your every whim is fulfilled and pampered. TTR may not be your vacation spot Ok so maybe this was more than 2 cents worth, but JMO.
WTF ... you kicked him twice in the neck !!! What are you a Kung FU specialists, or did you wait till he was passed out on the ground ,lol Point is even a well behaved large bachelor party ( turning paty'os into a sausage fest ) is bad for''the sexy and adults only atmosphere that gets you totally invigorated and relaxed, and topless optional ambiance, guests can choose whether to engage in the excitement or just stay away from the crowds and enjoy romantic moments in the jacuzzi of the quiet pool. With adults only oriented shows and games, our professional nightly entertainment will dare you not to be tempted'' unless you a cougar and want a lot of prey. Doesn't matter whether the guys are good or bad the bachelor party is bad. Please don't kick in the neck when I,m passed out in April Excerts from TTR website in Blue
Quick answer to an easy question.. ....No not a good fit for you guys at all. Sorry but it's an honest answer.
It does depend on what the group is looking for though, Honestly! As much as it may have come across ni the wrong manner in my other responses, I was trying to convey the fact that you have to have RESPECT and Looking to have FUN......... NOT JUST COME TO GET DRUNK AND F%$K SINGLE or MARRIED LADIES. My wife would love the attention of that many single guys as long as they were respectful and courteous. The thing is though, most(not all) male groups, when they get liquor in them and there are naked ladies around tend to go "primal" and think they can rule everything. I would say to the gents that are looking to come, you know yourself and your group better than any of us here could ever tell you if it is the right fit for you. If you think that even under the EXTREME influence of alcohol and the EXTREME amount of nudity that you wouldn't start to try and be disrepectful of ANYONE at TTR, then by all means this is the place for you. If not well I would say you need to look other places. Really think about what every thread on here states. "everyone is your friend", "a great feel good vibe", "complete strangers treat me like their best friend for years". Isn't that what we should be encouraging? the same as how we act while WE are at TTR?
We're all nice folks, right? We welcome all with open arms (until they annoy us...). I think the bachelor party groups that show up here are generally asking, "is this a good place for us?". To that I submit the following demographic (taken from the April Roll Call): And I would guess the the majority of the couples are between 30-50. Is this where you would want your bachelor party? To each his own...
From a new males point of view, having never experienced TTR yet I have to say this. I am a big guy, 210 pounds ripped. 230 off season. The reason that we choose to hit the swingers club instead of normal bars is the testosterone factor, and a few other things. I DONT HAVE TO DEAL WITH THE TESTOSTERONE FUELED BULLSHIT. For whatever reason, you get a group of guys together, and a few women they think they could "have", "do", whatever..and the testosterone flares. The woman could be single, attached or in an open relationship, it matters not to the "primal" male. They get put off by the women, for obvious reasons, then they want to fight. They call them nasty names that I will not put into words here..... Then this fight ends up in my lap, even if im dancing with my own girl, or yours. For whatever reason, they find the biggest guy in the bar and try to fight them. It has nothing to do with me, I am on the other side of the bar, doing my thing. I am not against a group of guys, I am not against a group of girls (we all know they can be just as bad) But the fact remains that testosterone and alcohol x men = bad As I write this, I cringe. Because I know that these guys dont mean to do these things, they just tend to drink too much and it goes sideways. Then they get shunned by the rest of the resort for their actions and they drink inside the group even more, and it all goes south real fast. If you took the alcohol away, would it be the same? Could the same guy that was grabbing at crotches in the post above do it if he was not half plastered to the moon? Liquid courage goes a long way. Could half of the stuff that we read about happen at the resort without that liquid courage? I mean absolutely no disrespect to anyone here, far from it. Trying to get my meaning across without ruffling more feathers. I would welcome your bachelor party on week 8. Or any other week I was there. But if shit ends up in my lap, its not going to go well, for you. This is a tough one to put into words.... I love you all LION.
I will qualify my post a bit we find small groups of singles great but never had a good rapport with a large group the whole mob mentality thing comes into play with the large groups. Not a lot of fun for everyone effected. It really puts a dampener on the amazing patty o's Vibe.
