Jeff & Laurie - I think it's more of the anxiety about showing too much when your at home but where your in the moment and the fun and the excitement, it doesn't matter and the anxiety just kinda subsides. I read a thread from someone early on that said 'if you try on an outfit in the store and you feel like a tramp, its perfect for TTR'. I laughed then and I still remember it and have kept that in mind when I've been doing my shopping. Thought that was a great phrase. Defiantly being comfortable is #1 so maybe a colored tube top and or matching boy short panties on the bottom would be just the ticket. A colored bra and matching panties under things that are sheer seem to work well to I think. Good luck! I'm sure it will all work out. Laura
Yep, just got items I ordered also and you can definately see right through some of them. I am keeping the dress since I can wear it as a cover up since it isn't that formal. A lesson learned.
You can buy something called nipple daisies or something like that. The are like flower shaped bandaids that cover the nipples. Or she could just wear a white or black bikini top with the dress. Mine is a little see through in the nipples too, I just say ah WTF and go with it. If she was wearing the dress here I get it, but at Temptations anything goes and is acceptable. Guess it all depends on whether she plans to be topless during the day, then it would bother her less at night. These are them. http://www.ebay.ca/itm/Pretty-Perfe...=UK_HealthBeauty_Other_RL&hash=item41703afea3 Make sure to buy nude ones.
That's so great to hear. I'm a survivor as well. I have 2 new breasts and have been more than a little concerned about how people would react to the scars. My husband tells me to be proud of my "battle scars". Your post makes me realize that I'm probably over thinking it.
Go for it girl! It's women like you who make other women wonder just why we're worrying if "my bum looks big in this" or "what if someone doesn't think I look nice in this". My mum, bless her, has just completed her battle with breast cancer, for the second time, 2 totally unrelated cancers can you believe her rotten luck, and, you get to think about "if it happened to me", and if it did, the one place on Earth I know I wouldn't be judged for how I looked, would be TTR. Looking forward to meeting you in April! :daisy:
I did realize people would not care. I didn't go topless at week but did a few times and I was a Hedo a few years ago and a woman had a mastectomy (single) and she was out and as soon as I saw her went right over and high fived her. Those type of resorts are the least judgmental of all.
Jeff, I've had the same problem ordering stuff for Stacia. Funny thing I'e noticed is, the girls won't want to "wear it out there" the way that you'd like, at least that's my experience. However, after being down in the party for an hour or two, parts of the outfit seem to disappear. If your lady is comfortable with having her top off during the day, then ... maybe ... she'll be adventurous enough to wear the dress without pasties beneath, but I betcha that you'll need to have a teensy thong. And, I don't know if I'd agree with white underwear beneath white dress thing above, it shows off the fact that the dress IS see-through, which is exciting on it's own. And, gee, wouldn't it be neat to have her take off the panties to surprise you later in the evening while dancing, etc? Good stuff to discuss BEFORE you get down there. One thing I'm still learning, don't apply pressue, just ask once, and if she's uncomfortable, leave it be. Hard damn lesson to learn, thus the "still learning" statement earlier.
100% agree on the ask once point and then let it go. Maybe then bring the dress w the pasties in case the mind changes. I did this before and then when the statement was made at pattyo's 'Hun, I wish you bought that dress. I had no idea how much fun this place was'. BOOM POW WHAM 'Hun, not only did I buy the dress, but I brought it with me AND I brought cover ups so you would be more comfortable' Winner winner!!!
