Hey ... wait.... That was a good description of my frat's secret handshake.... what the fu...... Someone's got some s'plainin' to do...
51 replies and not a single swinger? LOL... It's funny how people have so many misconceptions about people in the lifestyle. We have been in the LS for a few years and as everyone else, we also had misconceptions and stereotypes in our heads before experiencing it. First of all being in the lifestyle does not mean you will swap partners, we know a lot that have been for many years and never swapped at all. Some lifestylers just like the great atmosphere and social aspect of it; and like the flirting and dressing sexy, yet they only have sex with their own partners. So the funny thing is a lot of TTR are already probably lifestylers and don't even know it. Secondly, most lifestylers (especially the ones that have been in the LS for a few years) are the most respectful people you will ever meet. You have more chances of finding a jerk in the regular world. Of course as in anything in life not everything is black and white, there are of course the hardcore swingers and for obvious reasons they are the most noticeable ones. Some others you couldn't even tell even if you spent a month beside them in a fun resort like TTR. Lastly, we are not there to find other lifestylers and spend the week fucking like rabbits. We are there to party first and foremost, that is the reason we are heading to Temptations and not Desire (nudism is not our thing either, which is another stereotype, since at least half of swingers we know are not into nudism). We rarely, if not ever approach couples we do not know, specially if it's on a vanilla setting (meaning "regular" world). So to the OP, you have nothing to worry about, for what we hear TTR is not even 1/4 swingers and probably the most scandalous people you will see are just regular folks. Have fun!
LMAO... I meant fucking like rabbits with other couples, between us is a different story (will definetely happen)... I was just trying to point out that is not a free for all thing in the lifestyle or fuck everything in your path attitude.
Swingers are just more open to fun options and activities. Otherwise, most are no different than anyone else. I guarantee that you already know some.....you just don't realize who they are.
last year was my GF 1st time going and she was worried about all the same things and about her body. but as soon as we go thier and she walked around with in 2 hrs she was toppless and haveing a blast saying we are soooo comeing back next year. while i was at the bar in the active pool i was talking with a guy who had just came in and it was his 1st time thier and we were talking about the resort and how worried him and his wife were about comeing, when his wife came over shouting this place is great!!! look i'am toppless and i just licked whipcream of some girls boob!!! he just looked at me smiled and said this is going to be a good week...
Beat my wife by an hour!! Trip #7 coming up in 80 days guys!! Then the April Addicts will rule!! :flash: :flash: :headbanger:
