:flash:I freakin love you guys!!! Beware you may have just unleashed an animal now!!! I'm gonna come running from the taxi thru the lobby topless!!!
Right there with you chickie! I'm plenty curvy and i'll be honest..i'm REALLY sweating the whole two piece bikini thing. Its not really that i care what anyone thinks...cause i know people aren't going to be as critical as my brain thinks they will be....but i want to feel confident in what little i wear. You know what i mean? SO i've been dieting and working out like a fiend....but there is only so much time left..and i'm sweating over it. I shopped this weekend for bottoms and YAY they were all on clearance but wow..there isn't much material there and the one that did..looked like granny panties. SIGH! I'm totally okay topless! I mean..a boob is a boob is a boob! They are all sizes and i've never heard a man say "gee, look at those boobs" as a negative. Am i right?
This... We went to TTR last week, and I didn't expect my wife to take her top off much (Especially with the amount of bikini tops she brought)... Within 15 minutes she was topless and enjoying every minute of it. And every minute of it made me want her more and more... :aktion031:
Look at the side benefit from diet and working out, a healthier you! I started doing insanity 3 months before going to TTR, not because of TTR, but because my doctor was not happy about my beer belly and cholesterol levels... I lost 15 pounds before going. I always hated working out, but now I work out about 4 times a week, have more energy, sleep better and the wife loves my new shape. . My goal for this year is abs like you see in all the magazines.
I was really glad to see this thread...its nice to know that their are people of all shapes and sizes at Temptations! Like many others I had the same kind of worry...when you see a lot of the pics it can make you wonder if your going to be the only person with unwanted curves I have been working extra hard and going faithfully to the gym every day...but, its obvious I won't be at the weight I would like before our vacation. I love the one reply written by Scotty Dog that the sexiest thing a woman can have is confidence. If anything going to the gym has made me more confident with myself curves and all. Does anyone ever workout at the resort gym? I told my hubby I wouldn't mind going at least three times that week...but I guess it all depends on how much partying you do
dunno how many times ive said it, but will say it again.... if someone is going to look down on you because your a few lbs heavy, or a quite a lbs heavy, do you really want to talk/party/play with someone like that? fuk em x 10 its who ya are that matters.
I was freaking out over this for weeks before we went. I'm a curvy girl and had never worn a bikini in my life. But like my hubby Dikfore said, within minutes of us getting to the sexy pool I said screw it and took my top off. It really helped seeing so many other curvy women with confidence all around the pool... I'm so happy I did it, and now I feel sexier than I ever have before and don't give a shit what anyone else thinks of me. (Well except for Dikfore) Now I wish I could go topless on a daily basis. Damn reality...
I gotta say the 'Nobody knows you, nobody cares' moto is in full effect at this resort. I've never been to a place with less judgemental people. People are there just to have a good time, all shapes and sizes!
