A lot of days there is a BBQ set up around the Sexy Pool, so no need to cover the girls in order to grab a bite to eat!
Our first trip was April of this year and I did not how my wife would feel as she had not done it before. I am not kidding when I say it took her all of 3 minutes to go topless. She did it every day until they burned . She was sad, as was I, after that as she needed to cover up
Rick will be topless...I may get brave and give it shot - definitely gonna need sunscreen...don't even want to imagine how sunburned nipples would feel!
Took me a few days to lose the top on our first trip last Oct., and I started on our patio in the room (we had a suite on the beach). It was actually a really big deal for me to do that, as I was still getting used to losing 40+ pounds over the 5 months prior to the trip and was still feeling a bit self-conscious. The last two days the top was off, but I was hiding in the water a lot of the time When we came back in January for our anniversary, I was feeling much more confident and met a lot more really cool people from Cancuncare - lost the top the whole trip, every day in the pool and on the Boobs Cruise! My husband gave me the most confidence and reassurance, and he made me feel beautiful! Every size/shape can be found, and no one is judgmental at all. The third trip in April it was like "old school" for me - funny how transformed my attitude was, and how the shyness just kind of disappears! I had lost more weight by then, but also was feeling a lot more accustomed to getting my old body back slowly (after years of problems with hypothyroid weight issues!!). When you first take your top off in public, feels like the spotlight is on you and everyone notices and is looking - but that actually is a very distorted perception - people notice you a lot more if your top is ON - lol!! When I showed up to the sexy pool in January with a top on at the pool the day after the Boobs Cruise, one of our new female friends came right up to me and said "why are you wearing this" and untied my top right there - haha After 3 kids, 45 years, and weight gain/loss - the girls are not as perky as I would like, but who cares - everyone is beautiful and women of all sizes are admired and treated as goddesses at TTR - hang out with the cancuncare people and you will feel right at home
It really is one of those "don't matter if you do or do not". Personally, I am a big devotee of the smaller ones, and I'm not alone (even though my wife's girls are more in the midsized range). That said, my wife first started going topless on South Beach more than 15 years ago, and the first time she took it off, her heart was pounding, etc. (as was mine) ... then about 10 minutes later she said "you know what?" I said "What?" and she said "No one noticed." And that was it - she was a veteran. Nowadays, she puts the top on to come down to breakfast, and it comes off with the coverup, goes into the bottom of the beach bag and doesn't come back out until she pulls it out in the room at the end of the day to hang it up. And I love that.
I feel like as though I wrote this. My first time we were with a group of people that would never have thought about taken their tops off. My husband and I managed some alone time around the sexy pool (late afternoon) so I did unleash the "puppies." Second time I lost 45 pounds - started out on the balcony - got to the sexy pool and soon was comparing nipple jewelry with some guy! Off came the top and I never looked back. Nobody knows me and nobody gave a shit! In my 50's now and they are anything but perky but hey...my husband thinks I am a goddess and that's all that matters. Still trying to lose more weight but who isn't! Tequila gives you a lot more confidence in yourself! Like most people, I would rather regret having a great time than have regrets about what I really wanted to do. This time we are hoping to meet and greet the great people we've met on this forum while we are their. Can't wait to be there on Nov 24th!
It starts with the top. Then you end up at the nude beaches. Same thoughts there, you notice but you don't notice.
I haven't bought a bathing suit top in probably 8 years and i think you guys percentages are way off. I'd say maybe 50% after 10 and then close to 90% percent after lunch. In the late afternoons the bottoms seem to disappear when in the pool too! Kath
