First, after about ten minutes, the shock factor will wear off. Boobs are just boobs, that's all. Second, I would think, I hope anyway, that ladies are flattered at being ogled a little. There's a difference between a guy catching a peek, and someone just burning lasers into every nipple that passes by. Third, while I like boobies (a lot), the fact is there are some women who really look much better with their top on, and I'm not just talking about grandma here. You TTR regulars better back me up on this! Last, your concerns have been shared by every first timer. But in the end, most people end up laughing at themselves for being worried about it. It's really NOT that big a deal. Don't worry, you'll be fine!
Just take a look like you do the hotties at your local mall, you don't stand and gaze at them for a long period of time. I'm form iowa,just go and act like you know whats up after a couple day you will know whats up.
Thanks for the info. Pretty much what I expected. Totally agree with the glance and smile, not leer thought. Just didn't want to embarass myself by falling in the pool while I tried to keep my eyes averted. I guess the creeper would be the guy who falls in the pool because he can't stop staring.
If you stare too long you'll miss all the other sweeties. If you get a sore neck within the first 20 minutes of being at the sexy pool, you're doing it right. I am sure all couple and single would agree, its only human nature! If you want to have fun with it, wait till the girl who sell sunblock by the buffet leaves her stand, then take her place and offer your sun block application for free, but don't tell anyone where you got that idea, I plea the 5th. By the end of the day they'll all look the same!
Ha...thanks but we've been to Cabo 1x and hit the topless pools in Vegas maybe 4-5 a year. Had to deal with LOTS of creepers in Vegas especially since Kati is one of the few who go topless there. Seems to attract a lot of guys who think it's cool if they disrespect us as a couple...
now the leer and drool puddles are definite creeper. The people who talk crap and disrespect like they are more than worth to have "a run at her" are lumped into the same category but throw in the additional d-bag to their title. I have nothing wrong with a guys staring at my wife. Hell, even look a few times. But don't act a d-bag! :ranting1: That will get my attention for all the wrong reasons!!! At the very least come over, compliment the lovely lady and offer her a drink. You will be surprised how friendly :daisy: she is without being just a piece of ass to stare at. I am sure many of the other male 1/2 of cpls would agree that if you compliment our wives in a respectful manner, even if you do stare, we tend to puff out our chest a lil more cuz we know she is what makes us look better. God knows I aint got the looks she does!
The funny thing is that after about 2-3 days you'll start asking yourself...."I wonder what those look like with a nice top on?"
good someone put that in here... Thought maybe that would be common sense, but you cant be sure with some people.
I should add one other item since I am from the bible belt south and was new to this sort of vacation 12 trips ago. Do not and I repeat do not point and make oh oh oh sounds like an ape. If the girl does not slap you the better have will.:aktion060::aktion060: other than that "creepy in cancun is the same as creepy in the states"
