We did this last year, I found a wholesale lot of 20 on eBay. We gave them all away including the ones we were wearing the day we left. Just ordered a dozen more from Amazon for a few dollars. I have my "I HEART BOOBIES" one I got from an American Cancer Society event last summer.
I have the new 411... If you are a lifestyler in any way... :sofa: PM me and I will fill you in as to ALL the details as to not offend the vanilla. There is something better and much more obvious without annoyance or awkwardness of trying to find out that someone isn't in the lifestyle. Even being new and reading the threads people are confused about HOW and that the orange is getting over worked for the wrong reason. X XX XXX all confusing and from what the orange is supposed to be meant for is ONLY for people from cancuncare to identify each other from the site and meet others you have met on here. Someone put there own spin to it and now it's... well we have never been there so can't say first hand and dont wanna sound like a jack ass! So if you would are in the lifestyle and want to know what is coming and the NEW true way to start identifying others in the life, PM and I will let you know the details.:angel1:
i think the wristband idea x, xx, xxx is pretty silly. if i let u lick whipped cream off my wifes ass or we invite you back to the jacuzzi at 4am i think its pretty self explanatory! no need to overthink everything!
Good - thanks for this info! As two gay guys I'm pretty sure no one's gonna hit on us for 4a.m. hot-tubbing so we can skip the x xx & xxx stuff -- but we'll def get some orange bracelets just so we can find the other CanCunCare folks for shots and laughs. Thx y'all! C u soon!
Umm yeah I thought so too.... but we start the games once the bars open at the sexy pool. BTW we have "re-phrased" the term from eating whipped cream out of my wife ass to now better known as the "Portuguese Sandwich". Please Don't ask..... we were shammered when we thought of it!
for clarity - you're not a swinger but ..... means? Seriously, what level of "interaction" or play determines XX on your scale? We both love to watch others "having fun" and that leads to us having some of our own in the same place but not gone down the XXX route before. sorry if this is a daft question!
I'm a newbie to TTR but on other trips I've been on (non-hetero all-male resorts like Temptation) the system has worked a little like this. (Granted it's all about asking and checking, not making TOO many assumptions!) The first sign (X, red dot, etc) tends to mean "I'm here at the party, I know the score, if you approach me I'll be polite and even a little flirty and talk the talk, but I'm really not looking to swing/get-down/etc for whatever reason (not in the mood, in a monogamous/non-lifestyle place at the moment, not feeling well, hungover, etc); I'm not averse to things, I'm just not into it tonight or right now." The second sign (XX, yellow dot, etc) tends to mean, "I'm open, I'm not ACTIVELY looking at the moment, but if something fun comes up I might be game but don't be offended if I take a pass. I might enjoy watching or even light-involvement (some touching, some verbal encouragement, what-not) but I'm not necessarily into playing a starring role at the moment. Or I might be new to this and just wanting to learn more and ask questions and put my foot in the water." The third sign (XXX, green dot, etc) tends to mean, "I'm in the mood and ready to party, we'll have to hash out what I'm down or not down to do, but I am open to starting that conversation and open to playing a starring role -- I'm not gonna be standing on the sidelines tonight!" Is that fair for you veteran TTRers? I mean ultimately, the usual rules apply no matter what X, XX, or XXX or other sign system there is : ALWAYS ask first, ALWAYS be on the same page about what's cool and what's not, and ALWAYS "no means no."
That is so awesome n so true. Leave a little mystery cause sometimes the figuring stuff out is the fun part!
That is very good interpretation. Need to add the disclaimer that not everyone knows exactly what each level of X stands for so don't assume and always ask first.
