Good evening y'all good folks! Just have 1 question for you, if you don't mind. Where do you people manage to find those open minded ladies to join you on a trip to Cancun and Temptations? I keep reading your posts (being a world traveler myself) and keep wondering why it's soooo damn hard to find a lady even remotely similar in her visions and values to what I read in your trip reports. Here in Canada (Toronto and area) it's extremely hard to even get to the point of a live conversation with a woman, not talking fun and sex, just a simple contact, flirting and expressing interest. I'm very open minded, educated, well trained (professional sports instructor) and hopefully somewhat attractive (don't like to describe myself, others should do that), but I've never ever noticed any kind of an interest from ladies here in Canada. What is it?? Is it something I should know in advance? Why do you ladies change your behavior so much when you go down South for 1 week, but go back into your shell the second you set foot down on a Canadian soil? Why drama, head games and dishonesty are so widespread here?? Why is sex and, fun and pleasures some kind of a taboo?? Just tell me.... Any advice is greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance!
We met lots of couples from Canada both times we were there. If I understand your message correctly, you are a single guy looking for a "date" to go to TTR, and that is a lot different than a married couple deciding to go, or a couple who has been together a very long time. When I was single and dating in my 30s, I wouldn't have gone on a vacation like that with a guy I was serious about unless we were engaged or together for a long time, especially if I thought there could be a future for us. I wouldn't have wanted to be labeled as a "party chick" and thus not "wife material" by a guy I really cared about. That may be what you are experiencing, I don't know. I am far from uptight, but first or initial impressions can lead to weird assumptions, so people are usually on their best behavior early in a relationship - that was true for me totally, it took a while to get to know the few guys privy to my wild sex thoughts If you are looking for casual fun, it is kind of surprising you couldn't find someone who just wanted to go to Cancun and party - with no strings. It may depend on the age of the women you are talking about - who knows. But I do find that married women who are secure in their relationship are less uptight about letting go at TTR - but there are plenty of single women who also go there and have a great time. I guess it really just depends on where you are looking for these women open to the fun of TTR. I think maybe you might try meeting some single women on this forum, or married women with single girlfriends in Toronto who may want to get to know you better
Toronto is way too "get up and go" where in Vancouver you are on West Coast time. Trust me, its WAY better out here. We don't get snow, or extreme cold ... and we have one of the best nudist beaches in the world!
