Though my better half says no way is she taking her top off maybe after a few Margaritas she will come around .............and she even got 2nd place in the Spring Break Wet T contest just a few years back ........well maybe more than just a few years back.But her :flash:still look great after 3 kids and me playing with them for so many years...........LET'EM OUT
3. Attitude is everything. Who would you rather hang with, the chubby mom with some stretch marks who smiles warmly, invites you to join her group for shots and makes you laugh, or the hot swimsuit model who acts too good for anyone who tries to talk to her? If you're having a good time, no one will remember if you had a top on or not.[/QUOTE] Well said! Could not agree more!
wow! this may have inspired me to actually bring a bikini top with me! i usually wear tankinis because of my insecurities & bulging midsection, but who knows, maybe i'll say what the hell and wear it one day!
Do it! Nobody knows you and nobody gives a shit! And heck...even if we do know you, we still don't give a shit!!! D
Definately bring it, you never know, better to have it in Cancun than missing it 1000 miles away. On our first trip in Oct'10 my wife said no way, it took her 4 days to lose her top, next trip Oct'11 it took 2 hours, my concern that this trip... IN 50 DAYS!!! she will have her top off in the Airport:icon_lol::icon_lol: Paul
Thanks for all the comments and encouragement to do "whatever feels right." I am getting the feeling that it's going to be a great, non-judgemental, and FUN vacation, compared to nothing else Now I just need to get off of this board so I can start packing since I leave Monday morning, and luckily have the entire weekend off! My vacation has officially begun! :clappyinghappy:
Some of the women I thought were the hottest were the ones that had less than perfect bodies but didn't let that get in their way of feeling sexy and having fun. Also, remember that you can always go topless and hang out in the pool, sinking down so your shoulders are in the water. Kind of way of easing into it...you are topless but being underwater no one can really see anything. That's what my wife did. Lasted about two minutes and the she was sitting at the swim up bar ordering a drink with everything out on display But as many as said, its your vacation so do whatever makes you happy. If you want to do it, no one knows you and no one gives a shit. If you don't, what's the worst that could happen...you go home wishing you had? There is always next time
Well I'm also glad you started this thread. Its our first time to TTR & I have been wondering about the topless part. I'm a bit nervous about going topless in front of so many people. However, nobody knows you there & I've come to the conclusion that if we have to go there & worry about others opinions or our insecurities the whole time, then whats the point. Just go with what feels right for you, if thats taking the top off, take it off, if its leaving it on, leave it on. However, I have a feeling after a few drinks, I'm going to loosen up and "loosen the strings" ....LOL Shannon
Ok in order to make it more comfortable for everyone I feel its only fair that us guys step up and take our tops off too.
So glad that this is being discussed...I too am feverishly dieting and going to the gym not only for myself, but because I wanted to look somewhat "okay" when we go in November. Thanks to everyone who has responded. You've put a lot of fears to rest for me. I still want to work on my tummy and lose weight, but maybe the top will come off in November!
