Fortunately the douche bag level has been low on our trips to TTR. DB'S are not that hard to deal with anyways. A piss off or go to hell will usually suffice.
We have no real concerns about single guys cause Ideally there are single girls too so there should be something for everyone. But yes the douchebag policy makes sense its sad though cause a lot of people have a secret douchebag hidden in them when they drink, and from what I've been told apparently there is a lot of drinking going on. The sexual atmosphere is the only reason we chose this resort and we are both looking forward to seeing all aspects of it. We are trying to go there with an open mind to anything but promising nothing. I would truly hate to have to tell someone to piss off or to go to hell. Common courtesy Is just a value I demand on a daily basis regardless of where I am. If we are there and are in a great mood and loving the atmosphere and my lil lady is in a see through bikini and someone cant help but tell her she looks amazing... well I think thats kinda the point cause I have already seen it and tell her everyday! But i would seriously be concerned that someone has the audacity to randomly grope her cause of what she feels comfortable wearing? She like most people I would assume can do a good job giving off the vibe of what you can and cant do... With all that being said why are all the girls getting off the hook so easy lol. I see a lot of really aggressive ladies now a days too and if no one is gonna complain about them why complain about the guys lol! I hope everyone just has a great time at this resort!
With all the talk about douchebags and groping, the reality is that it is rare. As others have said, when someone goes too far the group as a whole (friends and others) usually step in and shut that person down. We were there twice in 2011 and although the large groups of guys put a damper on one of our nights, the rest of the nights were amazing and everyone was very respectful. Douchebags quickly get the message that certain behavior isn't welcome and correct themselves. So I wouldn't worry. Although it sounds like your "lil lady" will attract some attention, most (if not all) of it will be very respectful. When are you going to TTR?
Lol I say lil lady because its our inside joke she is exactly half of my physical mass so when we stand next to each other she looks like a little person in comparison! Besides my lil princess would have just made me sound silly! Who doesn't love attention I do hope she gets some attention in the appropriate way as I too would like attention. Gotta be honest If I spend all this time in a gym and trying to eat right and I don't even get one passing comment I might cry... haha we are going this Sunday actually till Thursday. We wanted to test the waters before committing to a long trip. But if the people are half as nice as all the folks on this website Im sure we will go multiple times a year.
We only had to use the "piss off" once and the guy so drunk a strong wind would have blown him over. FWIW my wife typically goes topless with a see through Malibu Strings thong. Shes gets some looks no doubt, but 99% of the people are very respectful. Most of the guys are just drooling in awe,lol. I know I do and I get to see it all the time!
We are lifestylers as many of you know. We have been hit on by a few 'dickhead' single guys at TTR but they are the minority. Within the lifestyle we don't meet or socialise with single men but TTR isn't about swinging for us. We've met some great guys there and it's usually the large groups of guys who think they are WILD that spoil it for the tidy guys. You'llfind 'dickheads' everywhere you go to be honest. We went for a night out in Cardiff (wales'es largest city and our capital) and there was plenty of 'dickheads' about. I (les) even had one by the throat as I didn't appreciate his actions. Never ever had to do that at TTR. When all is said and done, we got to TTR to meet some amazing people and have a laugh. I'm sure if any 'dickheads' played up the majority would actually put them in thier place.
Of course that wasnt aimed at you, Brewster. I might have gotten in trouble if I had as my wife was liking your cowboy hat,lol.
