Great trip report but I do disagree that being topless means you are open to swinging. Some people just want to feel the freedom of it and having fun. We didn't hav any trouble meeting any of the cancuncare people. I remember seeing both of you but didn't know you were cancuncare. To bad we didn't get to meet.
I guess everyone's experience could be different, We never got any weird offers but a couple of beautiful women came up to my wife and myself complimenting my wife in a very tasteful way which I did enjoy...
YOU WILL HAVE A BLAST. BEING TOPLESS HAS DIFFERENT MEANINGS....SHE WENT TOPLESS MOMENTARILY UNDERWATER WHILE WE WERE TALKING TO ANOTHER COUPLE AND THAT WAS THAT... YES, EVERYONE'S EXP IS DIFF, I SAW SINGLES MINGLING AND HOOKING UP AND SAW SINGLES THAT DID NOT SPARK THE INTEREST OF ANYONE. IF YOU ARE NOT A SINGLE PERSON, A COUPLE, IT SEEMS THE WOMEN GET MOST OF THE ATTENTION, THE MEN GOODLOOKING OR NOT ARE JUST THERE FOR THE RIDE SORT OF SPEAK, WE ARE SECONDARY. MY WIFE RECEIVED GESTURES AND OFFERS....WE SPENT A LOT OF TIME AT THE SWIM UP BAR AND ON THE EDGES OF THE POOL, GREAT WAY TO MEET PPL. THAT I SAW WITH MY OWN EYES, ONE OF THE MISS Temptation CONTESTANTS THE MINUTE SHE SAW MY WIFE, SHE GESTURED HELLO BY MAKING EYE CONTACT AND LICKING HER FINGER. ANOTHER GESTURED HELLO BY MAKING EYE CONTACT AND SMILING WHILE LICKING HER CUP. WE WOULD END UP HANGING OUT AT NIGHT WITH WHOMEVER WE MET DURING THE DAY. SHE GOT STRAIGHTOUT OFFERS, GIRL FROM ALABAMA LIKED THE CANADIAN SOLDIER AND ASKED MY WIFE FOR ASSISTANCE IN A 3 SOME, ITS DONE IN A JOKING MANNER BUT ITS PRETTY MUCH OFFERS THAT IF YOU WANT TO ENTERTAIN YOU CAN EXPAND ON THE JOKE OR COMMENT. WE WERE INVITED ON A PRIVATE YATCH FOR SUNDAY WHICH COULD HAVE BEEN WHATEVER BUT I TURNED IT DOWN BC DID NOT FEEL WELL AND DID NOT ENJOY THE FERRY RIDES, MADE ME SICK, i was feeling so lousy that I event cancelled our Sunday afternoon tour to ride 4 wheelers....DONT KNOW WHAT HAPPENED IN THAT YATCH BUT WHEN THEY RETURNED TO THE RESORT THEY WERE GREETED BY LOTS OF CHEERING, WHISTLING AND GIGGLES FROM THE FOLKS THAT KNEW THE COUPLE THAT RENTED THAT YATCH...you make of it what you will. THERE WAS ONE OFFER TO GO FOR DRINKS AS COUPLES ONLY BUT THAT WAS A MISMATCH, IT WOULD HAVE BEEN WHAT IS KNOWN AS "TAKING ONE FOR THE TEAM". AND LASTLY THERE WAS FRANK WITH HIS MEGA OFFER..... If you want to meet as many ppl as possible, hang out by the swim up bar, its the perfect place to eventually meet most of the ppl at the pool. Noone is saying stuff was done rudely or distastefully, some ppl are very direct and others just like laughing, talking or flirting.
I've been there 8 times and my wife is topless every year, I don't really think that has much to do with it. The few times we have been approached have been at night when people are lickered up! But then again I'm no model!
Being topless is just that, I was topless the entire time as well as in a thong. I got a great tan, I have been approached this trip and as well as in the past but, that is not a big deal to me. We are there to party and have fun on vacation and not for any other reasons. I met the best people each trip. Every trip has been a blast. Yep there is swingers there and some are aggresive but I know how to take care of my own. It's all relatively easy. JUST SAY NO.
I just keep waiting for a group of young hotties to ask me to go back to there room so they can have there way with me! Sure will be hard to say no thank you! Hell I think Lori would say yes just to see my face!
ha ha i love it!!! i left my top on, except for a drunkin moment! but do you still get hit on? hell ya! is it flattering? hell ya! this was my fourth time there, and ive only been rudely approched two times! a simple no, or in one case f... off works wonders. swingers, swayers, whatevers dont matter i love that resort! there was one strange guy running around in black sexy womens underwear. but its all fun. ya know joe she could be right. shock value is fun sometimes!!
are you sure it was me or was it you!! could have been both!! ha ha if you were in the sexy pool with your top on i would say oh my god she is shit faced!!! but i still think i would recognise that silly grin after a few sambucas anywhere.