We have talked about it and are we are in contact with a couple here in the uk but we won't be looking whilst we are away on our hols,well u never know lol
Hello everyone! I have read many of these different threads on this forum and this one has came the closest to answering a quetstion i do have about Temptation. This is our first time at Temp & i have definitely had my question answered if there are any swingers there. The lifestyle we choose is, i am open with him and another woman alone or me, him & a female. So the question i have, is there many single or bi women that frequent Temptation or is it mostly couples and few swingers? Also live in a very "small town" here in the states & with our professions the lifestyle is frowned upon greatly! When do attemp to indulge when we travel but do not have much luck due to it not being our lifestyle 24/7. If anyone could or would give us some info on how to express interest or realize the signs there are interest that would be very much appreciated! Thank you in advance and hope to meet all of you soon!! June 24-July 3
We've noticed so many couples on here looking for single bi fems, don't think theres that many to go round. We met quite a few lifestyle couples when were there in early May, don't bother with the single guys but there's plenty of them there. We managed to have some great fun with 2 very sexy couples plus there was lots of girly soft play going on xxx
I'd ask the other party how they heard about the resort, then ask probing questions and find away to say something about swingers being present. They should give you some idea their response regarding their opinion on swinging. In addition to this, for people new to this crazziness, my advice is to just let everything happen naturally, party with the kind of people you normally party with and that you are attracted too. Be open minded, outgoing, and polite and perhaps the sexual gods will smile on you. Or you could just come out and ask them to screw:headbanger:
Or you could just come out and ask them to screw:headbanger:[/QUOTE] Now I love that answer! I guess our biggest question (where I'm bi & my husband has open options to play too) is where we are not actual full swap swingers we are concerned this resort is mostly couples & single guys. Is there any/many single women for not only me but him also, and is it politically incorrect to approach just the female of a couple? I apologize if the questions are offensive, we do not want to anger or offend anyone so I'm just trying to understand the proper ediquet.
Now I love that answer! I guess our biggest question (where I'm bi & my husband has open options to play too) is where we are not actual full swap swingers we are concerned this resort is mostly couples & single guys. Is there any/many single women for not only me but him also, and is it politically incorrect to approach just the female of a couple? I apologize if the questions are offensive, we do not want to anger or offend anyone so I'm just trying to understand the proper ediquet.[/QUOTE] we understand your question... we are a full swap couple and the lady is bi..... for us it would be ok to ask if she wants to play with you as we play apart but in saying that when one of us is playing the other one is close by.... if you know what i mean. so if you and her was going to play i would be there also.... i don't have to get in on the play as this one would be for her..... there are other couples out there like this but most will only play as a couple, some what we call soft swingers.... will play the ladies only and then sex with own partner that might be something to look into also. hope this helps. :ernaehrung005::daveandmo::ernaehrung005:
SWINGING (lifestyle), yes the women make the final decision. And one big rule is NEVER TAKE ONE FOR THE TEAM!! And same or different rooms goes either way always depends on the situation. If the girls play first usually is the desiding factor. And for some seperate rooms work better. For a couple just starting out, I would suggest seperate, why?? Some people won't admit they are having fun and enjoying the situation, and watching your spouse enjoy himself or herself may be to difficult. So seperate is more enjoyable for everyone. No jealousy nothing. No chance of someone saying well you dont do that with me, you dont do this oh you made more noise. None of that happens in seperate rooms. ONE BIG THING be comfortable with youself AND TRUST TRUST TRUST... like someone said earlier, its SEX not making made passion love to the love of your life....The lifestyle is not always about the sex BUT, being with like minded people and having fun. Drinks, dinner, riding your motorcycle, you can be in the lifestyle (swinger) and go out 10 times but maybe only have sex 3 of those times. It's about having fun and FLIRTING!!!!!
This is a very interesting thread. We have a question, are the following two examples considered swinging, lifestyle or just having sex in the same room while an other couple does the same thing? Example 1: Both couples having sex in the same room or the same bed but not swaping or playing with the other couple? Therefor, just providing a show for each other while you do it. Example 2: Both couples having sex in the same room or the same bed but only the women can touch and play with each other while the men can only play or fuck their respective partner.
That is how we started out, someone watcing us. Once you feel comfortable, you can invite another couple to play beside you. Usually the women start touching, kissing which leads to more. It didn't take us very long to jump right in and we haven't stopped. We do not expect to play everytime we are together and don't go into it thinking that. John and I always have fun, no matter what we do, riding our motorcycle, hanging with friends and getting totally nekkid and partying with people. I would just take your time, always talk about EVERYTHING and be open with your partber. That is what we tell everyone. We love to flirt but will not jump on everything out there. We are going to be there with 3 other couples and 3 of the 4 are lifestyle friendly. Come out and say hello, party and just have a fun time. We will. 4 days a counting till fun.
