I had a great trip in September. Met alot of great fantastic people and celebrated my birthday with a 40 ouncer of sour puss then passed out naked on the floor to which Glenn tooks pics of as proof. I will be there this coming September again...........3-11th.
It was easy for us as we both had lifestyle experience in our previous relationships. Not something that was stated in our Match.com profiles when we met, lol. Getting into the lifestyle together was easy though she does have an unusual preference where she is more comfortable in group play such as orgies, parties or events, at least 6 or more folk
Here's the thing about swinging. Everyone has their own definitions, their own rules, their own styles. So communication is VITAL to this. You need to talk to your spouse/SO about everything--how you feel, what you want, what you don't want, your fears, your fantasies, etc. Once you and your spouse come to a consensus of what you're into and comfortable able with, then you need to communicate these things to anyone you might be interested in swinging with. You need to find out what they're into and comfy with, as well. RULE #1: NO MEANS NO. Period. RULE#2: NOTHING should happen without the KNOWLEDGE and CONSENT of everyone involved. RULE#3: Don't "take one for the team". If you're both not into the other couple/person, then don't do it. Another thing to remember is that while it's typically whatever the LADY wants, the main thing is to go at the pace of the "slowest runner" (the least comfortable person). Oh, and RULE#5: It's supposed to be FUN, so if you get the chance, ENJOY it!! =)
My first wife thought "taking one for the team" meant doing my whole hockey team....lol. Stressful period of my life. I had to quit football and baseball before things went too far.....LMAO
Wow bruce. That's pretty bad...be glad u weren't on a soccer team too. There can be a hundred on each team
We are hoping to have some fun down there, but we are new to the scene. Just need to find some like minded people.
