Yep, same here, i have to wait until she passes out to watch the late edition of sportscentre to get the hockey scores
I have had this discussion MANY times with Mindi when we first started to explore...sharing another woman is great and many of us' dream. The unicorn ya know, however, if the female is asking for another woman because she is bi, but not letting the other (male) half join the fun, we personally believe there is an issue. AND, how is it fair to the male half??? Discuss...
i personally wouldnt have any problems, although it would be pretty damn awkward...just you know, sittin in the corner hangin out like a perv...
you sure that one isnt the guy saying "I have no problem with bringing a girl into our bedrooom but prefer if her mate stays in the hall'? That's probably more like it
Well, if you think everything must be equal to be fair, why not try asking your wife if she'd let you have private play time with another guy? It couldn't hurt to ask...
That's what we say "Lifestyle couple..." We enjoy meeting like mind couples and singles for friendship first foremost and if nothing else happens then you have meet new friends. Chemisty is so important when meeting people because everyone is different with their likes and dislikes, so we are never offended if someone feels there is not a match and we expect the same from others. Starting out in the lifesty is like a new relationship you must take small steps so everyone feels comfortable with the situation they are in... We have been married for 28 years and and we are soulmates and best of friends. Linda & Tim
COMMUNICATION and self-esteem. Both partners MUST feel confident in themselves and their relationship. If you're worried about your partners thoughts or intentions you haven't discussed the issue thoroughly. Being in the "Lifestyle" is a great way express those fantasies that I'm sure most couples have. We approach our endeavors as a couple and expect couple participation. Most times that means mwmw but on RARE occassion there's the mww. We''ve been in the lifestyle for about 4 years and enjoy "soft-swapping". Maybe some day we'll expand our play but for now that is what we BOTH enjoy.
