I haven't been to Cancun but I have been to Cabo 4 or 5 times and haven't seen anything like a bunch of single guys looking for sex. I have just seen fun nice people having a good time, with whatever they are comfortable with.
Some people had a bad experience in Cancun with a couple groups of overly ambitious single British guys. That's the context my mind was thinking in. It's rare but sometimes bad groups do make it to the resorts
<P> i understand what you are saying as i have seen a large number of single guys make the assumption that Temptation is nothing more than a sex buffet and for me and t i would have to agree....................we have sex like rabbits our entire trip
To the shy couples who posted. The problem with waiting for people to approach you in Cabo is not all couples that go there are into the lifestyle, so unless you are dressed in a thong and topless or at least try to smile and talk to people, my guess is people probably are not going to approach you for what you want. Sit at swim up bar, and chat, be friendy and your chances are a lot better. If you sit on your chairs and hope for someone to come to you, the odds are a lot worse. Its such a small resort the last thing anyone wants to do is offend anyone as you see the same people everyday.
i guess for us, it's not so much the 'hi, how's it going?' thing... we have no problems talking to people we've never met before. the problem (at least for us) is more finding out if someone's available/willing without either offending them or coming off like a total perv (again). or maybe i'm analyzing it too much. i said anal.
We think Lenny and our self mean come aproch us by talking saying hello and stablish a conversation to see if we get along. It dosent mean just because the wife put on the see thru white dress with the thong showing means we ar having a swap with the first one that talks to us. For us that means lets chat and if it works out well
You won't come off as a perv, if shouldn't take long to figure out if they are or not by talking for a while. If they continue to chat for an extended period and don't just say hi where you from and leave, might be a good first sign. Plus alot of people in the lifestyle are flirtatious, sometimes you can just tell...lol Its not an exact science though One thing that people sometimes forget is just because they are in the lifestyle doesn't mean they are going to go with you anyway. Has to be a connection. We have given up trying to look there as it's to much work figuring out who is and who isn't. We just go and have fun and whatever happens, happens.
its always better when it just happens of course! Can Wait to be taking of from LAX and Arriving SJD one more month to be exact
:icon_razz::icon_razz:We have been to TTR cabos twice and loved it. We are not in the lifstyle but are an open couple and do not get offended by much. We have never been to the Cancun TTR so can't compare but we love Cabos for the fact that it is a small resort and it is so easy to meet people. There are certainly couples that will take you up on your offer. You just never know what can happen. We certainly found that out. You know what they say, what happens at Temptation stays at Temptation.
