Cabo temptation Changing Back to Desire ???

not saying i am right or wrong here .................but i think you prove my point for me even better than i could

because of some bad experiences you have either seen or heard you seem to lean towards lumping all single men into the "single guys suck bandwagon"

i hope i am mistaken ?

but in your own words you said,

"Usually the single guys bring with them fights, power drinking, inappropriate touching and voyuer cameras"

sounds eerily similar to what my mom and dad used to say about african americans ya know?

besides that.......

none of our single guy friends act this way. they are all cool and we would take them with us anywhere .............even if t has to tie them up and put them on a leash here and there

again i think we have to be very careful about gathering groups of people up and making blanket statements about people (whether those people be single, black, hispanic, gay, jewish, couples or whatever)

its okay to say you had a bad experience with a certain type of person but i think we should all step away from blanket statements and prejudices towards people who are not like us...........

the best

rob

 

Wow...just wow.
This has nothing, >NOTHING< to do with race or discrimination. Enough already about your folks and their bigotry. It isn't relevant.

Everyone here care less what color anybody is and we've yet to see one iota of racism on this forum. This place is made up of great people from all walks.
You're incessant race-card posting brings this great forum very low.
Just because people have resort preferences (hello!) it doesn't make them racists, or discriminatory in any way.
To think so is outrageous.

Moving on...

 

actually it has everything in the world to do with discrimination

basically you are saying because of a persons marital status they are not welcome and that is as discriminatory as one can get and it is also very shallow and imho incredibly sad

that we disagree on this is okay - i cant expect everyone to figure out everything like i do - that my friends call me the forum jesus is flattering but i still understand that not everyone can see the straight and narrow way

different people have different views on things that is perfectly okay

speaking or relevance and back on topic shall we?

i am fairly certain that this thread is irrelevant as they are not going to change the name or the concept and therefore all my single guy friends and all my single girl friends will all be able to join us for a week of FUN come april 2011

booking this weekend

singles and couples having a blast...............well they can only have a blast all together --------- if i can get a video for my personal library

the best

rob

 

:huh:

im going to discuss in depth with my swinger friends les/lynfa when they come to our house to visit us in october for our big halloween party

i know they are not very fond of singles either and since they are close friends of mine and t's i am hoping that they can perhaps...............let the proverbial cat out of the swinger bag..................... and fill me and t in on this big anti singles push within the swinger community

hopefully will get something other than the lame typical response that invariably casually lumps all singles into a 10 foot long sick pervert boat and then anchors dey miserable asses in the dead sea............

les?

the best

rob

 

this is not a discrimination issue but an atmosphere issue. All the resorts in Mexico accomodate different crowds. This is the point I was making that Desires does not need to have singles and the probable reasons they do not. Not all singles can be as behaved as your friends.Singles are welcome at Temptatins and many other resorts. Rob I believe Temptations discriminates against families. Kids are not allowed at Temptations. I do not think you would want kids there(kinda ruin the mood have a bunch of 3 & 4 year olds running around the pool during the Ms. Temptation contest.

 

Touche'
Exactly!; we all have our preferences to what atmosphere we Desire.....

 

you both had me at

"Kids are not allowed at Temptation"



rob

 

Thanks Diamondhead for your support of the singles crowd.......again, imo and it is my imo, there are lots of couples only places, family/kids places..... too many to mention but where are their places for singles to have fun????? I think I can count two resorts....Hedo and Temptation. Isn't it strange according to some on this forum how we 'singles' are the drunks and the perverts and the marrieds and lifestyles are the well behaved, lol. I have met more than my share of too 'friendly' married men and it's pathetic that there weren't more singles for we women to meet bc I don't want to meet anyone's husband and most men I know don't want to meet another's wife. Sure there are exceptions but as mentioned if the single/married ratio at these resorts were more balanced you would find we would not be bothering each other. Again I am glad you see things from my perspective, have a great time in Cabo, it was great when I was there and if I return I will join you guys in the gigantic hottub with you and all the couples AND singles and raise a glass.:biggrinbandit:

 

im with you and so is t

as i have said - i do understand that people have different views so i will stop short of any more outlandish statements

so lets just say we are not "haters" - we are "single friendly"

and you are more than welcome to join all of us in april 2011

rob

 

Hi Rob, it's not that we're anti single men in swinging it's just that a lot of them treat women like a piece of meat and that ain't cool. We've met some great single guys and some not so great single guys but we find them very pushy when we're at a lifestyle club for example. They assume that because we're swingers Lynfa will sleep with them even when they are fat, hairy and butt ugly.
The bad ones stay in everyones memories a lot longer than the good ones. Plus as lynfa is very bi we prefer to meet couples where the woman is also bi and there's no use for single guys. We've heard way too many bad stories to have our minds changed and we don't even visit clubs that allow single guys anymore.
Sorry to those of you that are genuine and treat women with respect but with lots and lots of couples your fighting a losing battle