Yes!!! I hear you!!! we have had the unfortunate experiences with swingers that were so aggressive we shy away. Glad to hear that not all swingers are like that. What will happen will happen.
Well I just got back last night, and I must say I met a lot of people from this site this trip a real lot of repeaters and newbies and I had an absolute blast with all of them, everyone seemed to be exactly what I expected and anticipated
i know just what you mean...ive discussed this w/ ppl before and I think perhaps they are not able to swing that often where they live? Either due to conservative jobs or towns or lack of...Here in South Florida is a HUGE hotbed of swingers, there are clubs, parties, events every single day and everywhere...so when we go on vacation, it's not like we HAVE to hook up (if that's what we wanted, that is), we go to have fun and laugh with friends and spend time with each other, thats the main priority...we would never approach someone or come on to them at TTR, totally not our style.
Hey!!! welcome back..Bruce and I looked for you to say goodbye before we left.. and remembered you were on the booze cruise.. how was it?...
ahh the booze cruise was great, relaxing on the way out to the island and a party and a half while there and on the way back..I was hoping to see you guys before you left, it was great meeting you two, what fun we had...sorry I kept Bruce out late a few nights haha...
I think I have a good bullsh*t detector, so I tend to just ignore those posts that seem over the top. It's pretty hard to shock or offend me. On the flip side, I think I have a good detector for authentic people and I know I'm going to have a great time next week with the CC people I've managed to connect with on here.
rdubnpk Just pinched myself to make sure I was real and......OUCH!!! First trip was this year in March and didn't (to my knowledge) meet anyone from the forums but met a bunch of really great people and felt totally at ease the whole time we were there. You know how you go some places and everyone seems standoffish and uninterested in meeting anyone new? Wasn't like that at all. had a really great time and looking forward to returning...