It's on the up - don't take that literaly lol pmsl... when we started swinging about 9 years ago it was unheard of with a cpl. Now we see a few profiles are changing and saying the hubby is bi /bi curious. I'd still say it's minimum though - about 5% maybe. Lynfa x
By your definition, we are definately Swayers!!!! We are not Swingers in any stretch of the word, but my wife is very flirty and I tend to be to. She is kind of more flirty with other females. Which I don't mind at all. But we are open sexually with each other and do not take it to the next level with anyone else.
Ok, maybe this sounds dumb, but why? What if it's another couple that want to swap? Or does that not happen? Sorry if I'm way too naive!!
Don't quite see what you mean lol sorry. We play with cpls who have a bi female. Then I (Lynfa) get the best of both worlds lol... Les gets a good deal too though :icon_smile:
Lynfa, you will have to forgive my pure innocent little wife:angel1:. You are more than welcome to pull her under your wing for a little guidance:aktion047:
There are a few different leves of swinging. Some cpls meet, the women have some bi fun then the men play with their own partners (girl/girl), with some the women have their bi fun plus the men play with both women orally (soft swap), then theres cpls were the women have their bi fun plus the men play with both women and have full sex with both women (full swap). We started with girl/girl fun and moved up the scale over the years. We now do any of the above depending on what everyones comfy with lol. Good, clean, naughty fun pmsl xxx
There's only two rules really, always repect everyones limits or comfort levels and never play with a couple just for the sake of it (you'd be suprised how many do) xxxx