Lynfa, I (les) by reading what a lot of swayers have put on this site think the being openly sexual thing means talking toothers about sex, being suggestive but not actually having sex with others. I know some people don't like being labled but if you have sex with others (swap partners orally or full) then you are swingers, simple as that. People can deny it all they like but the whole world will still call them swingers. I think if you see Rob in action he is the perfect swayer and I mean that as a compliment Rob. A very sexual guy but a perfect gent and mad to boot lol.
we may have to make a thread just for the "swayer" definition haha I always thought swayer meant that the husband and wife were both flirtatious and fun, but there was no sexual activity.......
Definition I had to hurry up and vote before the definition of swaying got any more confusing!! Les i agree with you that "swinging" is fairly clear, i think the problem with this one is if you asked a hundred different people what swaying means you will likely get 100 different definitions:icon_confused:.
So just me with the dirty mind that thinks it's more lol x Lynfa - the one who always thinks it's more oops x
Lynfa I like your definition of swaying, It's easy to understand. For us what happens in Cancun stays in Cancun.
Yes, at least 90% from what we've experienced but we don't meet swingers where the wife isn't bi because it's pointless
