We'll be swinging tonight with a new couple and it still feels as exciting and nerve racking as the first time which keeps it's fresh. Never become complacent about swinging and don't fall into the 'your swingers and we're swingers so we must have sex' trap. You'd be suprised the amount of people who go really funny with us because we won't swing with them, this has happened whilst at TTR. At the end of the day 'why would you want to have sex with someone your not attracted to'?
Every couple has thier own version of swinging. Hopefully the couples that play have been open and honest with each other before anything happens. We tend to be situational swingers and don't plan meetings and often don't swing with the same couple again. So we are going to Desire again this year in May. We will sure miss a lot of you and still have not booked the air so there is still a possiblility of a few nights at TTR. James and Kristy
Da!!!!!!!! CANNOT AGREE MORE y would anyone have sex if there is no attraction swinger or not!! Glenn:bash:
we notice that everytime we dont want to play with someone that is not what we are looking for they call us flakes.
Andrea&Mario28 they are probably just sulking because they can't have what they want lol. We are swingers and we never ask anyone to play whilst at TTR for fear of offending but there some who just think SWINGER = EASY MEAT but it couldn't be further from the truth. We've bumped into some that would play with a grasshopper if they could stop it hopping, some just have no standards what so ever. People like that give swingers a very very bad name which is hard to shake off.