Bashed and Unwanted Well, we have to say we're feeling bashed and unwanted here, mainly from J4. We're locked in to TTR and can not move down to Desire. Yes, we are swingers and proud of it. We have been married for 29 years and been swinging for about 15 years. Just for your information, we do not force anything on anyone. However, it seem we're not the only swingers that visit TTR. So that everyone will know, we are a friendly couple and if J4 or any other non-swingers would like to ask us about the Lifestyle, please feel free to ask. We don't bite and you wouldn't turn into a swinger when talking with us. M&M (Mike & Melissa)
So that there is no misunderstanding J4, we did not tagged TTR as a lifestyle resort. We were merely letting other people in the lifestyle know that we have a mutual interest. Again, everyone is free to ask us about the Lifestyle.:bj: M&M
Well being that I'm already on the fence about being a swinger.... I think you guys just might make me full abroad
Don't worry breast Hammie, we'll be there from the 15 - 20th, alone or not, say hi and have a beer w/us. :fish:
of March? If so... I want to come by.... but i hear day passes are NINETY! and hubby can't make it this trip, that's why we are coming for his birthday and our anniv in may. but i do plan on attempting to go to TTR!
yes we'll be here in march, can't wait... yes the day passes are about that much, but as you can imagine, lots of fun
Just to clarify my point in saying TTR is not a lifestyle resort. I wasn't bashing you KC_Cpl or trying to make you feel unwanted, I was simply clarifying the fact that TTR is not a "true" Lifestyle resort when you said "This will be the first time for us to Cancun and Temptation but not new to the lifestyle." After being on this forum for many years, many new people automatically assume that TTR is a full lifestyle resort and/or equal to Desire and it is not. I think Jamie says it best when he call its Adult spring break. Steve's poll is probably pretty representative of swingers at TTR. The early results are around 60/40 are vs. aren't swingers. This is a higher % than I thought it would have been before the poll. I would have guessed it was closer to 70/30, but it is what it is. We've been to TTR four times and are totally comfortable with 99% of the people we have met at the resort, (both in and out of the lifestyle). I could care less if you are or aren't in the LS, I don't judge people based on your orientation. I didn't intend to bash you or make you feel unwanted, just trying to clarify what TTR was before you got there and it didn't meet your expectations because of misinformation. I am surprised that you were so sensitive in reacting to my 2 sentence response when I only clarified a statement by you...I never called you out. Just my 2 cents, take it for what its worth.
You may want to look into renting a room, it may be less expensive than a day pass. Try skoosh.com but you'll have to know ahead of time which day your are going. Its an option...
